Wow, thanks for all the help. although i've kindof only got just as confused about everything over the course of the post. i have talked to her, she says nothing is going on, that she only wants to be with me, that she would never do anything with anyone else. That he's just her only friend at work, and one of her only friends at the moment at all (which is actually true.)

I actually brought up this post a little bit ago and she just got angry and said if she was doing anything she'd be deleting text messages. That i can read her texts whenever i want.