She said she doesn't like putting them on. I dunno what it is but even sometimes when she is doing stuff to it with her hand i sometimes can't keep it going. I don't have a problem with it when i'm masterbating or anything, I can keep it up as long as i'm in the mood to and have some visual stimulai. I've noticed I can't seem to masterbate anymore unless I watch videos, trying to do it while thinking about someone doesn't work well. I think that has something to do with this. I am usually fine while i masterbate, i've never had a time when i went to masterbate that I couldn't, so thats why its frustrating me. I don't know what the problem is. I was reading online about it and i happened upon an article about your PC muscle. Strengthening it can help you keep stronger erections. I just feel totally crappy that I can't perform for her. I am usually hard the whole time up until we go to actually have sex, and then when we go to do it, I lose it. It's like wtf man!

I was gonna try practicing just when I'm alone to try and put one on and see if it happens then too. If anyone can give some advice, experiences, or anything that might help, please let me know.

Oh and she doesn't want to give head, she's never done it before and i asked her about it today and she said she didn't want to. So i was ok with that, but just letting ya know about that since you said something about it.