Well, I can understand where she's coming from...when you are sick the last thing you want is sex. She's sick a lot....and like I said, when she is healthy (Honestly this is not really that often) she does other things that needs doing and then get's tired and fattigued (Some of her symptioms)

She knows that I need some luv'n, she also knows that her drive overall is lower than mine. She also knows how I feel about it, but she just can't get into the mood on the good days.

What am I going to do? I can't force her to have sex with me?

This has been going on for such a long time. I'm feelnig so thinly spread, Between a Super-Stressful job and taking care of her and our child at night time, I'm run ragged and I'm frustrated and I'm very, very lonely. So I found myself here to meet some friendly folks to have a chat or two.