Originally Posted by
vashti 
You are certainly not alone. I have heard this is a common problem.
In any case, stop touching your weiner without her. It will help to sensitize you.
I haven't touched myself since she started touching
me.
She got me off one way or another 3 times in those 2 days. I'm thinking that might've been a reason for my desensitization.
Yeah, she does many various things, it's preceded by plenty of foreplay and usually soon after I got her to climax. Plus because we're both new at this, she's constantly trying different techniques. Sometimes she'll do something that really drives me wild, but by the time I say something, she's moved onto something else.
What I do like about the sexual side of our relationship is that afterwards we talk about what was great and what wasn't so hot. She pretty conservative about all that stuff, but bein' a yankee, I'm used to talking about sex on a normal basis, and I think it does us well.
Anyway, she's told me that she really wants to get me off (orally) 'cause her pride has been hurt a bit.
Shit, how often has a girl told me she
wants to suck my cock?
Never.
It's awesome.
Regardless of my ability to climax or not, the foreplay, the touching, kissing, sucking, is
awesome. In fact, so far, I've found all of that to be far more pleasurable than ejaculating. Shit, at one point, my whole face started to tingle when she started kissing and sucking on my ear. It didn't go away for 10 minutes at least. I
love it.