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Old 18-11-07, 03:43 AM
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I feel for you Misombra. You've got a good friend whose hanging around scum of the earth and you feel helpless. Ok, my suggestion is to say something but bring her self esteem up at the same time. She's better than that, etc. If you dog him out too much she might get on the defensive side. You dont want to alienate her.

Just tell her youre concerned about her welfare. She's been in a bad situation just to find herself in another one. People who are down just attract others like it. Gosh like fly paper ya know!

Doesnt sound like you know too much about him other than he's nastier than hell. Its gross it grosses me out, but she's an adult and has to make her own decisions, the best we can do as friends is try to guide her in a more positive direction. Myabe get her busy doing other things to get her away from this scum pond. But always let her know youre there for her. If you see her continuing to make ucky decisions AFTER you've made attempts to correct it, then make yourself less available!

Goodluck honey!
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