Allright well my boyfriend and i have been together for a lil over 2.5 years.. and he lost his virginity to me... but that was like ummmm 2 years ago... he still doesnt have the staying power... The majority of the time he cums b4 me.. and some times right b4 I do and mines goes away... even when we do use condoms its the same way... how long did it take you to get the staying power and keeping your amy under control????