| i would first, of all things, look for the type of people you want to hang with, not the ones who disrespected and try to win their respect. some people are just assholes and they're going to stay that way.
all of the things listed are pretty much secondary to one primary factor: CONFIDENCE. there will always be someone higher than you in each of those categories, so you have to be proud of yourself on what you have done so far and who you are as a person. there are some guys who have none of those qualities who end up with women because they can pull off that confident, smooth thing that they do.
you have to feel strong in what you have done so far and work on self-esteem more than anything else, yet no one can do that and you can expect anyone to give it to you unless if you realize your own potential that you already have, then let that aura shine. |