Id say if theres any chance this would work out, youd hafto overcome her own insecurities, most likely by confronting it, and make sure she knows shes who you want, but when shes not there and your horny, your a guy and you will handle it.
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I would say is that she sounds like a psycho.
Overall she sounds very nice, but she sounds INSANELY jealous. Which is odd (to be THAT jealous). And she literally wrote stating "that I should not call her or 'I will have to deal with her dad.'"? Wow. I would write back saying, "Ok. I won't try to call you." And I'd be thinking while I'm writing it, "Cause if I did, I'd have to deal with YOU."
Do you think a relationship like this is healthy or worth pursuing?
Worth pursuing? I don't think it is. Healthy? I
KNOW it's not.
Is she going to be in for a rude awakening with her next boyfriend or are there guys out there that really don't look at other pictures, videos, etc...
She's either gonna end up having to change her ways and realize at some point in the future that it's NOT going to happen, or she's gonna find a boyfriend who's REALLY freakin' good at hiding it. And she'll NEVER know. Or she actually WILL somehow find someone who doesn't look at porn. But finding someone that doesn't masterbate? . . . good luck.
Anyhow, she soon didn't want me to watch tv, wanted me to cancel the cable, wanted to install one of those kid protection programs on my computer, and she would cover my eyes when anything related to sex would show up on the screen. I had to walk down the street pretty much staring at the ground not to risk upsetting her, and everytime a remotely attractive girl would walk by, she would stare at me to make sure that I wasn't checking her out.
Re-read your thread to make sure I answered everythign and caught this the second time around. I firmly re-state that she's a psycho. If canceling cable, having a child-protection program on your computer, looking DOWN while walking and having her burning eyes upon you whenever someone SHE thinks someone attractive is walking by (face it, sometimes what she thinks is attractive is not what YOU would think of your picture of perfection), is going to upset you in the relatoinship, then DON'T call her back. DON'T to to contact her.
However if her insane jealousy isn't going to bother you in the relationship (which since you posted this it obviously already is), THEN there shouldn't be any trouble.
Alexi