Anal isn't all that great. I guess there is a first time for everything, and you only live once, though.

I have the same problem that you've got with blowjobs. They have to do it just right. It really does take practice, a girl who is just getting started at it won't be very good. You both should realize that and not be so frustrated. Also, I know orgasms are great and all, but don't let that become the focus of your sex; it will ruin it altogether.

And use lube for Christ's sake, unless your want your foreskin yanked right off.