there are always two sides in a relationship... if you guys shared the same religious values and morals, then she was probably under the understanding that you weren't looking at porn in the first place. i can only imagine how betrayed this girl felt after she found you'd been hiding it from her. is porn really necessary when you are in a "monogomous" relationship? and from what i've read online... in order to quit looking at porn somebody needs to hold you accountable which sounds like everything your girlfriend was doing. my question is why she stuck with you after you consistently did this to her?