Response to post 8 -

Hmm.. well I am pretty traditional, I guess... Unless the guy is generally harmful to the family unit in some way (addict, cheater, physically abusive, etc.), and providing he is good with the kids, I would probably stay. I would have to hate my man a REAL lot to tear up my kid's family over him.

On the other hand, if there are no children involved, I don't feel the same obligation to try to force a square peg into a round hole.

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