Originally Posted by
trishbaby 
Why are guys so very bad at kissing?
Do you agree that a good toe curling kiss is a must?
A toe curling kiss is a must.. and I don't mean litterally; but a kiss that makes your nervous system go haywire and just gives you that feel-good sensation all over your body and almost puts you into a trance is what everyone is entitled to, both men and women..
Why are guys bad at kissing?
Maybe you're with the wrong guy. It's true, some guys, will never get it right.. It could be the case that he simply doesn't care to get it right.. It could also be the case that there's bad communication.. But it could also be the case that it's not HIM (at least the ACT of kissing).. but an INTERNAL problem! The actual release of endorphins isn't what makes kissing so amazing.. the endorphins simply act as a catalyst to spark and tap into deeper more powerful memories of positive emotions, feelings, and sensations that come out in one big surge and take over the body.. It's quite possible that whoever you have in mind, has failed to establish this emotional connection with you, so kissing him is almost purely physical for you, and you don't get to enjoy that emotional rush..
Originally Posted by
trishbaby What about severe emotional abuse? In either cases.
With kids then what about if he is a rotten father and the children want him to leave? But that age old fear of being alone? Or the emotional abuse of what good man will want baggage?
Good guys are indifferent to baggage if they either have their own kids OR you are willing to have his kids (additional).. if you satisfy his basic/primal need to procreate (or it's already been satisfied).. a "good" man should not have a problem with a woman who already has kids..
Now, your definition of "good" should include someone who is sexually content, financially secure, and obviously open-minded and family-oriented..
If the guy is quilty of emotional abuse.. leave.. you should have ZERO tollerance for that kind of behavior.. it's not healthy for the kids OR you.. it's actually a better environment for the children if they live in a seperate household (argument free) than to live in a hostile environment where both parents are together! but the ideal household is where the mother and father are argument free.. and if the man you have in mind can't do that; then you have to either try and work things out (psychologist), but if he's unwilling to and emotional abuse is in his nature, then you have to leave and find someone else..