first of all i do know what im doing with my life after highschool im going to join the marines and if i decide to get a better education the 4 years in there will pay for that, and beleive me if it meant to be able to see my girlfriend everyday like at school (since she moved) then i would wait until we are married, but since we both want to and are always horny like all the time, i was just asking u guys, and i dont see any reason why i would break up with her in my future, and she feels exactly the same we talk about these things. and to also say she is on the shot to and i have condoms (trojan ultra ribbed) and so does she, so we are ready and cant wait to do it, but i am positive if we do do it nothing will go wrong except getting caught or her getting pregnant, but it sounds like u guys think we should wait or at least until the moment is perfect, and whoever said i dont care about her first time thats offensive cause i would die for her, she just doesnt want to get caught and not cold out