Originally Posted by
Gigabitch 
I think I may need to do that. Last night he got up to go to the bathroom and I felt myself really relaxing and heading into sleepy land...
I hope his feelings don't get all wounded, but if I don't get some sleep, I'm going to turn into Satana.
Well, since he's been having trouble too, suggest trying it out for the benefit of both of you. And if he's wary you're growing away from him or something like that, spend some time together, cuddling (if you do that), or something right before bed just to keep him assured.