well i am a girl and my first time was disaster . I was si tight that he couldnt even enter the half of it and it was painful it was hell. I will recomend u lubricant get good one spendsome money ... and befor u try to enter in her ...well why dont u just ...u know...give her some pleasure ...u know with ur mouth and then it will get wet by itself . It will e still painful for her but believe me dry sex is the worst thing for me ...be gentle and do things with passion good luck buddy