Coming from a female perspective, oral sex isn't degrading, it's tight... cos u feel really good about yourself after u finish the job... especially if u know if ur partner likes it. Dude, you're hella young, i mean, if u dont want her to do it.. i'm sure someday you'll meet someone else and she/he will do it for ya and u wont feel bad about it. It's her choice to do it anyways so yea... dont be a pu$$y. its really not that big of a deal. haha... pardon the pun. haha. tiiiight. Oh yea, just dont kiss her right after u finish, **listerine**