I have to clean up and go to sleep to wake up early tomorrow.. but since this question of yours is time sensitive, i'll take the time to answer it..

Last Friday, I went to a lovely little cafe' with a good girl-friend of mine and my best guy friend.. The only reason? To hit on the hostess.. (9.5, cute, adorable, sweet, rich dark tan skin, long black hair, deep hypnotic puppy-dog brown eyes, and plump sensual lips.. i'll stop, but her body was 36-24-36).. I called her over and we told her we needed her opinion on something.. My friend Maria took over.. before you know it, she's shooting opinions, and all of a sudden Maria stops talking and offering resistance to the 9.5's POV.. the conversation starts to die out.. so I jump in to keep the fire going.. I stack onto "this girl basically got books on hypnosis to try and get him to stay with her.. can you believe it! I mean, honestly, do you believe in that magic stuff?".. the hostess said "no" and not too enthusiastically.. (she was starting to feel the pressure of being hit on).. that's when the food came.. as soon as it did, a switch flipped inside of me (this is your chance to push her away to convey non-needy-ness, and quite litterally I did).. "anyway.. i'll show you something later.. (she stood interested).. after we finish our food, i'm hungry.. (she said "excuse me?").. i'll show you later, our food is here! go! (I stick my hand out as if to tell her to leave) come back when we're finshed.. go! (she finally left)".. My friends then huddled around me shocked.. "dude, what the fcuk was that? If I was her, i'd throw the food in your face and then spit on you.. that was rude!" (honestly, it was.. it was pretty bad)..

But could it be fixed? (Mission Impossible IV)

- A waitress came over to our table and we started talking to her while the hostess watched, the waitress was having a great time (increasing the feelings of hate, and creating jealousy at the same time).. It was 2am and the hostess got dressed and ready to go home.. I got off of my seat, and as she was walking out the door, I stopped her.. "hey, look.. tell you're manager we're all really sorry for calling you over and talking while you're working.. (her: what? no it's ok "she was shocked, now she was re-rationalizing what happened, it was highly plausable and she bought it") Well, seriously.. I didn't mean to get you in any trouble, and I saw him walking over and looking your way.. and I was trying to get you to leave.. but you wouldn't budge.. (her: "laughs" no, it's ok "smiles-genuine")".. She left the place with really mixed emotions for that night.. (This Friday, i'm going back.. broke the ice, on neutral terms.. might as well)

Now, if that was put under control, I hope you notice how your situation will be easier to fix..

1. WARNING: You did something.. it HAPPENED, it's OVER.. the worst thing for you to do is say "sorry" for what happened (obviously, there are exceptions).. but this isn't one of them.. If you say "sorry" it means you've been thinking about it.. it also draws negative attention to it.. so, honestly, just forget it.. because honestly, it's very likely that she didn't feel it the same way you did, and she may have already forgot about it (after an exam!)

2. If you feel your actions were yelling the following message "i'm interested in you, I like you, I have feelings for you, I want your attention".. there's a quick fix! (that's right).. In your case, that quick fix is:

"Hey you! How was your exam? (Good/bad/blah blah).. Aww, that sucks../good!.. anyway.. I actually have to run, i'll see you around.."

That's it.. it takes less than one minute.. when asking about her exam and reacting to how it went, give her your attention, blur out the rest of the world.. but as soon as she says how it went.. react and realize that you have to get going.. blur her out.. your focus should shift to where you have to run off to "have a story in case she asks (where're you going?) make it a place that she can easily come join (lunch with friends, some place close by) and DON'T offer/invite her to join"..

Analysis?

- Problem: You think you did something to signal that you're a needy guy (DLV)..

- Quick Fix: You do something for her to rationalize as non-needy, non-desperate, non-attention seeking.. (DHV).. if she asks where you're going (interest on her part; but don't gauge/test for it).. when you have a story, and you tease her with the potential of fun/stimulation "lunch/party with friends for someone's birthday/acceptance/etc" and don't offer to invite her.. (she realizes that you're doing something fun.. but you didn't volunteer the info.. she had to dig for it.. and she's not invited).. again you (DHV).. then you walk away (WALK, don't run! Think about it! You couldn't stay and talk because you have to go somewhere, but you're not exactly running because you're late.. you're taking your time walking.. HUGE! She's not as important to you as your friends are, and you didn't NOT talk to her that much because of some time constraint, but rather because of choice.. her subconscious/unconscious mind will pick up on this, and her conscious mind will rationalize "wow, I guess I was wrong.. no way he likes me, he wasn't shy or nervous, he just didn't care.. he didn't even invite me! I can't believe i'm that much of an idiot to think he liked me.. I could have sworn he did.. I guess I was wrong about him".. (DHV).. (Again, learn from my most recent mistake, DON'T GO OVERBOARD with active disinterest! AD isn't being COLD/RUDE.. it's still being friendly and warm.. but just having other things you find more interesting, worth your attention and time.. like her friends or that lunch you have to go to with your friends)

- It gives her time to remove and re-rationalize those feelings of you being interested in her or "shy".. while giving you time to come here tomorrow so we can talk about Inner Game..

Best of Luck..

P.S. (Subtle Unconscious sh*t-test warning: She may start acting warmer and might actually want to keep talking to you even though you're leaving, and you might be tempted to stay.. DON'T.. it's simply inconsistent.. she'll be thinking (oh.. i thought he had to go, what happened?).. run the quick-fix.. and take your time walking away.. no matter what.. DON'T act, have someplace to actually be so your unconscious mind doesn't feel a sense of conflict as if it's lying.. you actually DO have somewhere to be.. and it will show..)

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