Originally Posted by
Only-virgins 
What would be the point with all those questions to myself. Specially the ones about where I want to be in like 1 or 5 years. Am I supposed to change myself or just do something else to be a better person at conversations?
The point of this is/are many things..
1. To eliminate any limiting beliefs you have towards strangers/women
2. To focus and build a strong sense of identity
3. To make your unconscious mind fully aware of a realistic picture of your internal reality, one which you want to project to others
This doesn't involve changing yourself, although you should always be improving yourself (body, learning interesting things, learning fun things, doing fun things, etc)
All this is doing, is getting you to think.. and all it will do is bring out the person inside of you which is for the moment very inhibited..
But it's a personal journey.. I can't take it for you.. it's something that's up to you.. you have to take the journey, and as you take that journey and feel those changes from within.. you have to be able to land where you want to in terms of where you want to be.. The only thing I can do, is guide you in this journey, which is why these questions are vital.. These are really the only questions we'll BOTH need to know.. from that point on.. the journey is entierly yours.. I'll only be steering you and keeping you on the road.. but it's YOU that has to be taking the inner voyage.. and as you feel your internal reality become crystal clear to you.. I want you to notice now natural & instinctive your interactions will become.. but all in due time.. for now.. back to those questions!