Originally Posted by
Only-virgins
Hey. I ran into her and said "What is this? you again? I keep running into you" ....she looked at me and I asked "How was that test?" ..When she responded "It went ok but I'm not sure"...I than started to slowly take a turn down the hallway away from her saying "See you later, I have to get going"...she slowed down and stopped ...and gave me this cute smile...dude...I almost caved! so I smiled and walked away....crap!
A simple "hey you!" always does the job.. "What is this? you again? I keep running into you" screams (This is obviously not how I normally speak.. and you can probably tell I took a good moment to put this sentence together.. i'm trying hard.. which means I like you.. but I hope you'll see it as confident/cute/fun/funny).. But if your mind had an exit-goal already in place, i'm sure your tone of voice was non-needy/non-try-hard..
Don't worry about almost caving.. (although you did fail a test.. she showed you interest and you almost caved.. but at least you didn't run up to her and stay there).. I'm honestly very proud of you though.. e-high-five.. you went through with the quick fix and it seems like it worked..
Analysis:
"It went ok, but i'm not sure".. (comfort, that's all this suggests).. don't confuse it with "It was ok".. or "I dunno".. seperately, those translate to (ugh, leave me alone; I can't stand it when you're around me and I have to keep talking to be polite).. but together.. it's safe to bet there's "comfort" (not the same with interest, not even close).. but comfort is good..
As for the cute smile.. can't say much about it.. Women are infamous for fake signs of interest.. Like the insecure creatures they are.. they constantly strive for attention and validation (their weakness, or your doom.. whatever you choose to make of it).. one way they do this is to feel they have you under their belt.. they may touch you, smile at you, tease you, and talk about sex the whole night.. and for any poor guy who can't read into the whole situation too well.. he'll naturally try and step things up just slightly.. (touch back, go in for a kiss, tease back, talk about sex with him and her, etc) and before you know it, she's running for the hills yelling "ugh.. I swear.. all men think about is sex.. pigs, all of you.. dogs.. sex crazed animals.. how dare you! don't talk to me again.." (but she's not really shocked.. she was expecting this.. actually waiting for it.. so it can all end and she could move along to the next desperate guy who will gas-up her ego & esteem)
So, what i'm worried about is if this smile was a fake IOI.. if it was.. let's hope the quick fix kicks in.. if it wasn't.. then the quick fix will still kick in.. and you'll be getting more IOIs..
No more theory.. take the time to answer the questions so we can get this ball rolling..