First of all, not the case that she was "amused".. that implies that she rationalized OV's actions to mean he likes her (had to go? didn't dig deeper and want to talk? took his time walking away? not exactly OV looking to be around her).. I can't believe you would use such a counterproductive psychological tactic in favor of this girl and to the disfavor of OV.. (LF Bros be4 hoes)

The quick fix is instant and on the spot.. the fact that you showed no willingness to stay, no needy-ness in trying to push for a conversation, etc.. helps in the rationalization process..

This is the beauty of active disinterest, put-downs, and ignoring her and talking and being friendly with everyone else.. She can't rationalize that you like her, because doing so would be vain of her, and inconsistent with available information you're giving out.. her ego-protection mechanism kicks in, and instead of thinking "he likes me".. thinks.. "hmm.. why doesn't he like me? everyone likes me, i'll show him.."

That's when she'll start to test.. with her fake IOIs & IODs, but I think the quick fix should have done the job.. But equally as important.. always be the one to leave/exit/hang-up/have to go/etc from an interaction.. The subcommunication of that is that you lost interest first (and while to guys this doesn't work, SHE'S NOT A GUY!) for as long as she's having fun around you, and you're pulling away, taking it away.. you're conditioning her to chase..

Lew Burke's Dog Training: (Punishment/Reward system)

- If she gives you IOIs, ignore them, always be conservative and consider them fake and manipulative (initially).. eventually, when she's continued to qualify herself and has displayed at least 3 unconscious IOIs.. you can "reward" her with more attention/fun/good-feelings.. and eventually, IOIs of your own
- If she gives you IODs, be unaffected, and "punish" her.. what I mean by this is simply take away the fun/value you're providing so that she no longer feels as good.. talk to her friends, shift attention to someone/something else and be distracted.. (but don't make it a big deal, make it seem natural, as if she just did something to make you bored & uninterested)
- Set up a situation where she can qualify herself or shine in a positive light (show off for you).. then reward her with IOIs sometimes, while not being that impressed other times..

Theory: Obvious & Simple

- When she gives you IOIs that are genuine & real, she has more fun.. you're conditioning her to increase the frequency & degree of IOIs she gives you
- When she gives you IODs, she no longer feels good, but not because you're punishing her directly, but rather indirectly by taking away those good-feelings.. you are conditioning her to stop giving IODs, because doing so means she has less fun (something she can rationalize to be her OWN fault, within her direct control, and she'll stop doing it so she can continue to feel good and have more fun)
- Lastly, you condition her to WANT your IOIs as a reward via qualifying herself.. In short, you're both training her to chase you, and to look at your attention, validation, and IOIs as a reward; offering almost no resistance to them..

Reality: She has nothing to offer you.. Unless she cleans her butt with $100 bills.. for the moment, she has nothing to offer you.. the only thing she can do is sit there and look cute (boring).. In reality, the only person providing life & fun in the interaction is YOU.. So I ask, why are you chasing and seeking her attention? DON'T! Because doing so implies that the only thing you are after is her sexual favor.. When she qualifys herself to you, and you slowly & eventually (on-off) reward her with IOIs, you make your interest in her legitimate (that is to say, she can rationalize that she has DONE something to give you reason to like her for HER, and not just for sex)

The person with the power here is YOU.. Don't fall for her state of mind or get sucked into her frame.. YOU provide the fun and feel-good-feelings.. she provides nothing but company you could find anywhere else.. The only value she has, is the value you give her and make her believe you think she has.. That's a useful tool, FOR LATER! But enough with Theory.. back to State of Mind & Inner Game, no more distractions OV.. the sooner we get this over, the sooner you can have whoever you want..

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