Anyways, I don't understand what fear you are talking about when you say let go of the fear and you can share a deeper feeling with a girl. Also what kind of past is holding me back. Didn't understand that at all.
For clarification-The fear was in reference to the second quote, specifically that anxiety, nervousness, and conversational skills must be ironed out before you have feelings for a woman again. I'm not saying it's wrong to want this, only that you might miss out on your way there.
The past event was in reference to the first quote I posted, more specifically hating yourself for it sometimes.
Isn't that what he kind of is saying? To make yourself believe that you have something to offer?
Hopefully it's so that you can realize that you have had something to offer all along.
~Sphinx