Exactly Sphinx!

I live in NYC, and it's not just packed with good-looking women.. It has great-looking guys too..

Here's how to look at guys.. Guys are just ugly chicks.. it's that simple.. Yes, they're going to come over, and try to pick up women in your group.. but like I told you.. there are ways to counter this, and there are traps to set for them to fall into..

I'm working a group.. the whole group is having a great time.. this new guy comes in trying to take someone from the group or make himself part of the group..

- Awkward-Test (70% success rate): "Hey! Do we know you?".. most of the time they just move along.. and all you have to do is quickly stack onto something fun like a game or trick that involves the whole group.. Guys are toast..

- Out-Alpha (Indirect): Tool him by telling him you want to show him something.. asking him to jump through hoops "sit down, hold this, open your hands, do this, do that.." before you know it, he's your b*tch, you have his compliance, and best part of all.. he's adding nothing to the interaction.. you're making him look like a beta, while you're making yourself look fun and more alpha.. "tooling him".. then you lock him out of the interaction after you're done, and watch him go puppy-dog-mode..

- Out-Alpha (Direct): Cut into his conversational threads.. "hey, don't mean to cut you off... one second, before I forget..".. Be louder than him, and don't be affraid to turn your back to him and isolate him from the group.. they almost always go puppy-dog-mode.. A couple have grown pissed-off and started to make threats and were ready to fight.. which leads me to..

- Make him Qualify himself: Always unattractive.. he's showing his true aggressive/rage colors, making himself look like an idiot as you're keeping your cool.. "Hey dude, sorry, but I don't go that way.. less touchy-feely.. haha..".. now he's too busy qualifying himself, showing his insecurity in his sexuality.. If he gets physical.. you have people around you.. (But learn Jujistu or Aikijujutsu; and either joint-lock him or throw him on the floor and hold him there while the bouncers come.. again, you've out-alpha-ed him).. you can get up and say to the girls "wow, I guess he really liked you guys.. you know.. 8,000 years ago, when people still lived in caves, this would be a huge turn-on.. this is what primitive humans used to do.. I guess what they say about some guys is true.. they never grow up.."

In any case.. you are ALWAYS the source of fun and good-feelings.. ALWAYS.. the leader in your group.. where other guys follow you, girls want you, and people want to be around you.. This is actually easy.. all you need to have this is:

1. Strong sense of Identity & Inner Game
2. Solid State of Mind
3. Value, fun, and good-feelings to add to the interaction

Examples:

- Tony: He preforms at private parties and exclusive establishments for a living.. Very talented musician, Amazing voice, also plays the guitar (accustic/electric) and the piano.. go with him to a kareoke bar, and you'll get bored of pulling women..

- Ben: Speaks 8 languages, british accent, and is an art history & english major.. he will tell you everything about any artist, work, and period.. he can also recite works of litterature and poetry like it's in front of him.. boring you say? Watch girls melt like putty

- George: Really warm & friendly guy who's always happy.. his value? humor.. an unlimited supply of it.. and he knows people who know people who know people who know people..

Everyone is different, unique, and has their own value to add.. All you're going to do.. (the sooner we finish this) is become perfectly aware and in control of the value you have to offer..

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