Originally Posted by
Only-virgins 
I know this is another thread but hey. I know I make mistakes in the most subtle ways when talking to individuals and I'm hooked on the some of the ideas Grkscorp has mentioned. This thread is devoted thus to improving once social interaction and I with that reasoning placed it in the "development" section of the LF forum.
Maybe we can learn how to avoid some things such as
1.) Being nervous
2.) Sounding needy
3.) wrong body gestures
4.) improper eye contact
Whatever it is I have been doing wrong I want to know. Girls approach me and than they run. How can I be something I am not, that doesn't make to much sense. If the conversation is going no where what do I do? what do I say? and how do I say it?
Just maybe this thread will be helpful to all the people making threads along the lines of "I like a girl but how do I approach her, what do I do, and what and how do I say it?"
Well, since this thread is to talk about our experiences, I recently asked Grk for some books on the subject. Not because I feel I need them, but because I've always been fascinated by human interaction and I wanted to find patterns.
I gotta tell you they're great, they awake your confidence if you know what I mean. I'm not a shy guy but I didn't act totally as I should.
I went out yesterday, having read one and half books. It was a party, I didn't know almost anyone, I just presented myself to everyone. By the end of the night, two girls tried to kiss me, five gave me their phone numbers - I only asked for one - and I was invited for another party.
My advice: try to look special. For example, when you go into bars, they give you a card to fill with drinks and you pay when you get out... at least over here lol. So, I managed to get two cards - see where I'm going? I use one for drinks then pay for the other one : D
That gave me a "**** the system charming aura" which I used to push other guys and I ended dancing in the middle of about 10 girls.
Just to prove it works, I'm 15. I still have a lot to improve though, I suck at the comfort fase right now, I didn't have a clue how to push a girl to a quiet place and talk to them...
I was interested in one, she was interested in me... I mean she had her eyes glued to me, she touched me everytime she could, she even mirrorred me... Or is it confindence getting to my head lol? Whatever, she was a bit shy in conversation so we just danced and I asked for her number before she left.
What should I have done? I guess I'm going to resume my reading now...
EDIT:
Ok, now I got some questions:
1. What do I do if I want to make an unconfident person attracted and comfortable with me?
2. I don't know if it's the same where you live, but over here the only way girls know how to interact with a guy seems to be over text messages. Should I go along? Any tips?