I'm proud of you.. You did great

Getting stuck in comfort is where a lot of guys go wrong..

Solution:

- Always kino, from the start!
- Nothing is ever a big deal, there's no awkward moment when touching
- Let it build up slow (brushing, touching hands, arms).. and then go deeper (ahem! with the kino.. breathing down her neck, wisper into her ear, pull on her hair, let her legs graze you, sit her on your lap, gently touch her face/cheeks/nose/chin with your palms/finger when she does something silly/cute, hands and arms around her waist/hips, kiss her forehead/cheeks, playfully bite her nose/chin, etc)..
- Psychologically tear down road-blocks.. "stories & patters".. kino is comfort building and creates familiarity with your touch.. that's why you should always kino.. but when you touch people around you in general.. (your touch is no longer a big deal).. but with shy women, you'll need to set her at ease with this.. It's not comming to me now, but go through my posts, I got a shy girl poster on here to give a handjob to her bf.. if text alone can do it.. content + delivery can definitely do it.. Point is, talk about stories with friends you know or even you.. talk about women doing/going to the next phase you want to be (kissing, making out, sex) and make it sound perfectly normal and not like a big deal.. make sure you don't judge.. you have to make her realize that it's normal.. that you won't judge.. and that nobody will find out.. because you use "discretion"
- Unethical (but effective): give her situations where she can "qualify" herself to you.. Don't always make her feel like she's shined in a positive light.. do this on-off.. as you do this.. she'll rationalize that you're interested in her and attracted to her because of the qualities she's worked so hard to show you.. after hours/effort of qualifying herself for you.. she'll begin to feel that she's winning you over.. But all you're doing is teasing her.. you're never pushing for sex.. in fact you don't even push for kino after a certain point.. you just breath down her neck.. look her in the eyes, smile, and pull away.. it's cruel, frustrating.. but in short, you're turning her on and pulling away.. getting her aroused and pulling away.. she'll feel safe in that you're not pushing for sex.. she'll feel comfortable because nobody will find out (with you) and you don't judge her.. so with all road-blocks removed and her turned on.. all she needs is a place.. she'll make up a reason for what she's about to do on the way there..
- Friends! If she's shy, she won't do anything around her friends with you.. the fact that she's touching is HUGE.. she must really like you to open up like this in front of her friends.. but alone-time is simple.. it's called a "date".. just you and her.. no friends or anyone else holding her back from what she wants to do..

Texting:

- That's unacceptable.. Don't give in to this form of talking..
- Tell her that you can't stand texting, it's childish, and you don't feel like you're really talking to the other person.. you can't understand people who like to text.. you hope she's not one of those people (she'll say no.. she's not one of those people.. if she says yes.. then tell her that's a shame, because you liked talking to her.. make sure she has your number or that she'll see you again.. that way she'll stop game-playing, and you won't get sucked into her frame)
- Tell her that you like to talk on the phone, to at least feel like your talking to the other person on the other end.. that you want to hear her voice on the other end.. there's something so amazing about people's voices (I would stack onto patters/realities here)

Note: It wasn't confidence getting to your head.. at 15, girls are stuck at a strange rut.. they look around and all they see are "boys" who claim to have pythons in their pants and be players.. then they have "boys" who are nice/sweet/polite/gentle/quiet/reserved/boring.. This is the phase where girls start to feel superior to boys.. they feel more mature, and they naturally want a guy who is more mature, and will make them feel more mature "hence older men".. But then there's YOU.. you're not quite like the "boys" they're used to.. but you're around the same age and not quite "older" to make them feel that awkward pressure of being with an older guy at age 15-16.. They can't put their finger on it, but they know you're something special.. and they also see that other girls want/like you.. and like the catty creatures they are.. they all jump on you to claim you all for themselves..

Keep reading on.. keep growing.. keep learning.. but most importantly.. keep having fun

Best,

GrkScorp

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