I really hate to sound harsh, but she has made it clear that she doesn't want to be with you.

Don't get me wrong I can sympathize with the heartache you are experiencing you developed some real feelings for this person. I know those feelings don't go away overnight, but telling her you'll wait - she clearly doesn't want you to wait, she wants to be with her boyfriend. She has recognized that she cannot be a friend to you and a girlfriend to him.

You can't find anyone to match up to her? She had a boyfriend and she cheated on him - don't you think you deserve someone that will be faithful to you?

Please follow the advice that you have received - start seeing some other people. You do yourself no favors by waiting for someone that doesn't want you.

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