Originally Posted by
boobaa 
You didn't get it, it seems. Dudes who are socially normal, dress and act like you. They don't openly speak about video games so you are looking from the wrong groups.
In fact, my girlfriend said pretty much what you just said. Most guys my age play videogames, so I should probably just find "normal" people to hang out with, and the rest will probably come along with it.
Did you finish reading my post?