well i just want to be prepared because our affection level is escalating everytime we see each other and its not like u plan these type things...we've known each other for over 5 years and i feel like i love her enough to be able to get thru anything with her...she knows that i dont care about sex and i'd rather wait til marriage anyway...those were her original plans too but then again things happen...its not really her having more experience than me that bothers me, which i really wouldnt call experience, because to me thats a pretty terrible way to first experience sex...that was rape to me and i just want to be able to give her the best time possible...for me it wouldnt be sex anyway, it would be making love.