Originally Posted by
misombra 
okay so you know some people who just say too much stuff right away you know?
the trick is probably to disclose just a little more than the other person and see if they disclose a little something to you.
This is good advice for conversation & growing relationships.
I seem to remember Nomas posting something about gradually increasing intimacy that ran along the same lines? Mbe in the archives someplace? Don't remember if that was on this forum tho.