Have to be pretty strong to come forward with all this like that. It was meant to be. Just understand that. You did NOTHING to put the family into shambles as you put it. You were violated and all those who tried to keep it quiet have to feel uncomfortable. This would have never happened if you were not mistreated as child. What ever your family is going through must happen, you have to understand that it has to happen. It is right. You can't hide this crap. I can't believe your mother would just ignore it like that. I think a father would take it harder than that even.

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