One thing Chris has said which may be a contributing factor of my personality is that I dont like confrontation and will buckle EVERY TIME. I do. My brother said "Amy, you should have your spine back NOW." Defintely need to let her know now I wont listen to it, so thank you youre right!

Kyle doesnt know this happened. Hopefully we can keep it from him for a bit, just til he gets settled. He's moving into his apartment tonight and he sounds relieved to be there. I'm happy he made a choice and WANTS to better himself. Thats a good sign to me! He's going sledding tomorrow, he cant wait, his best friend has never seen snow, she's freezing up there!

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