Thanks Jennifyr and bluesummer. Well I think I have significantly ruined my 7 month relationship with my bf because I failed to tell him before we got intimate. He said he was not angry but he went on about poor and immature communication. He said that I have never been disinterested before and he wondered what was wrong. I never had to tell by ex-bf and it was an almost 8 year relationship. I guess I am not so use to this new relationship and disclosing it. I feel really bad now because it should have been simple to say rather than make him wonder what was wrong. Lesson learned. I did not know that he was disturbed about this until two weeks have past.