Originally Posted by
alexanderberson 
Ok. First of all, was he there to witness the kissing? If so , why didnt he step in to kick this guy out? Obviously you were little drunk and had little control of the situation. I just think he should have done something about the situation and not being so stuborn and break things up. Its too easy to break things up. It takes a real challenge to build the relationship.
Move on. Time is the best medicine! I know its gonna be hell for the first 2 weeks. If you can pass that time without talking him, you going to be fine. Again, i am not sure if you have intention to keep friendship between you and your ex. If not, then its best not to talk to him at all.
alexanderberson, he wasnt there to witness it because we are in a long distance relationship. 4 hour flight or 27 hour car ride to see eachother. dated for 9 months, probably saw eachother for 3 of them.
and mishanya, he is definitely the type of person you described. trust broken easily... holds grudges...wont forgive me, doesnt even believe me. last night he was like "ure just scared to leave me cause you know you wont find someone like me cause i would never hurt you" that comment made me quite upset and scared to move on...which i'm guessing is what he wants. he's trying to make me feel like crap, and it really is working...