Originally Posted by
bloodtippedrose 
thats all very inspiring but its hard to believe when i lower my standards extremely and still dont get very many hits. the only males here seem to be ones that ask for my phone number before they ask my name or ones that comment on the short skirt im wearing ect. :/ I dont want a guy like that and I dont openly act like a whore so its not like I scare the good boys away. there just doesnt seem like any good boys here really.. except one I had a major crush on and we got each others phone numbers the last day of his work but he hasnt called me so I suppose he wasnt interested and that crushes me. I just want an honest guy that has SOMETHING going for him and makes me laugh. Im sick of dirty cheaters that mooch off friends and parents. I want one friend in my lifetime that doesnt lie. I dont lie to people, and hide things and I dont understand how other people can..
Rose, rose, rose. If lowering standards isn't working, then (of course) you have to heighten them. Low will treat you low, settle for quality. Don't settle for second best!
What gives you the right to say that "there aren't any good boys there really"? Where have you looked for them, where have you tried? Can you match my routine looking for prospects?
Work, uni, friends of friends, friends of co-workers, friends of family, dance classes, functions, festivals, parties, bars, pubs, clubs, internet, singles sites, live shows, shops, shopping centres... (I'm not going to list all places where I look, but you can see where I'm going with this)
How regularly and frequently do you look for quality? Where do you look for it? How do you go about finding it?
Some people see this as a lot of work, but it's not. It's fun. It's a learning experience. Each encounter is a rehearsal that brings you closer to your goal. Each smile and friendly exchange is a testament to your learning success.