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Old 16-03-08, 04:02 AM
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Originally Posted by kalupe View Post
i feel like we're approaching the end. is this a trustworthy instinct or im just being paranoid?
Don't let your mind go off on some tangent, but i'm just curious..

- Has he made suggestions about your clothing lately, implying that he would like you to perhaps dress a little differently?

- How is your sex-life? How much variation is there? It is possible that it's feeling like the same old routine?

- Can you think of anything that may have created some misunderstanding on his part, or yours, that is maybe causing him to feel hostile towards you?

- Has the way you behave or carry yourself changed lately, perhaps because of stress, or being tired? And has that change spilled over into how you are with him? That is to say, do you think he may have felt reletively neglected (you not paying as much attention or giving him as much affection as he was to you) at some point, and is now feeling a bit hostile?

Short of some major drama-filled PMS-heated argument, or an other girl, all of these can be fixed.. and you shouldn't let your feelings and emotions take your mind too far into thinking things like him leaving you.. It's a primal fear, yes, and an insecurity EVERYONE shares, but like Vash said, don't take it so far from what it is that you turn it into a self-fullfilling prophecy..

1. Talk about it, (In a way he can understand, that's geared towards him, not you)

2. His needs are different from yours, it's a fact of life.. show him that you're genuinely interested in finding out what HIS needs are, and motivated on working on anything that's making him "less than happy"
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