[quote=GrkScorp;324601]Don't let your mind go off on some tangent, but i'm just curious..
- Has he made suggestions about your clothing lately, implying that he would like you to perhaps dress a little differently?
Nope.
- How is your sex-life? How much variation is there? It is possible that it's feeling like the same old routine?
Sex life is downnnnnhill, lol. We havent been spending time together lately so yeah, that's kinda affected too. Same old routine...no i don't think so.
- Can you think of anything that may have created some misunderstanding on his part, or yours, that is maybe causing him to feel hostile towards you?
No, there's none i can think of really.. we argue a lot.. like half of the time we're arguing. and we share an off and on relationship.. we have opposing personalities but we still try to make this not matter..
- Has the way you behave or carry yourself changed lately, perhaps because of stress, or being tired? And has that change spilled over into how you are with him? That is to say, do you think he may have felt reletively neglected (you not paying as much attention or giving him as much affection as he was to you) at some point, and is now feeling a bit hostile?
No not lately. i used to be really busy though, but im not anymore. and i just dont understand what's causing him to be like this alll of a sudden.
1. Talk about it, (In a way he can understand, that's geared towards him, not you)
I've talked to him about it bazillion times already but i feel like he doesnt take it seriously.. he keeps on saying there's nothing to worry about blah blah, but he still keeps on being that way. like, i'll be inviting him to dinner at my house and he says he cant because he's busy blah blah, when before even when he's busy he still spends time with me. o.o and if i start talking to him about it again, it might annoy him already?
