Originally Posted by
buzwiz 
So I didn’t speak to him for about 2 hours then I asked him what his problem was with me these days and he said there wasn’t one and I said that it seemed like he wasn’t bothered and doesn’t care anymore and he said `I do care` and I was like `when was the last time you sent me a random text to say hi or w/e` or ``when was the last time you tried come mine ` or `when was the last time you even met me at the bus stop` and he said ` maybe you right, maybe I don’t care, what then?` so I said like a said you aren’t bothered anymore and he said that he does care about me but not the relationship. So I asked him why he started the conversation with `I miss you` and he said `I do, but im like do I really? I don’t know :S`
So we basically split up online
I just need to figure out how to move on now, but I don’t want to forget about him no matter what he still makes me happy and I don’t want to forget that, hopefully even if we cant ever get back together we will hopefully have a good friendship because I will always look out for him and care for him no matter what
so what do i do now? :S opinions? comments? say w/e you want...[/color][/u]
It sounds like you've initiated the break up though the power of suggestion. You suggested that something was wrong and that things are not the same as they used to be, while knowing the exact reasons for that and knowing that you yourself didn't have time to spend with him due to other commitments. Basicly here is a sumamry of what happened:
You suggested that relationship is failing.
He denied that it is
You brought real life examples to demonstrate that relationship is indeed failing to prove your point. Failing to highlight that you also had other commitments and also contributed to change of circumstances. I.e. you suggested relationship is failing and it's his fault
He considered the evidence and akcnowledged that yes something looks wrong
You continued the assault accusing him of not caring
He denied this
You asked why does he show you that he cares when he clearly doesn't? (I.e. break up suggestion)
He (confused) didn't know how to reply to this
Result: Break up
Both of you played a part in this, and if you ask me honestly it didn't have to be like this. This is something that could've easily been resolved through talking and negotiation.