Oh wow, I know how this feels.

Just think of it as a catastrophe averted. Be thankful. As much as it may piss you off, don't let it, because then she's winning. The best revenge you can have on a person that hurts you, is to be happy, successful, and forgiving. That pisses them off more than anything, trust me.

Get rid of any shit you have that belongs to her. Maybe the move is a good idea - fresh starts can work wonders. I did that when I left my ex husband, and it was such a positive change.

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Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mohandas Gandhi