I agree with indi. Choice is the key word in pro-choice. It has to be her choice. Everyone has made different experiences, and they base their advice on that. But we can't truly know someone else's circumstances.
Not only that, but we can't even know our own in some senses. If someone had the experience of aborting and then regretting it, they have no way of knowing what would have happened if they hadn't aborted. In that alternate reality, would they be wishing that they HAD aborted?

you see what I mean. It has to be her choice. She's standing at a crossroads.

That doesn't mean that you can't help her make up her mind, though. You can discuss all the pros and cons of both options with her, help her organise the practical stuff like finding a gyn or going to an appointment with her if she wants, or you could go online and ask about her situation on some sort of online forum. Hey, you're doing pretty good already

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