I havn't spoken to him in the past week - I actually don't know how to respond.

The logical me says - kick him to the curb.

The other me - your guy is in trouble, he has told me what wrong, a good partner should be there to support him through thick and thin.

Its weird - not sure whether I'm just being treated liek crap or he's actually doing the right "manly" thing and dealing with his problems solo.