Ex and I broke up 7 months ago. We dated for nine years and lived together last nine months. I am 26 and she is 25. After she broke up with me I did all the normal stupid stuff and she would tell me get ot of my life forever, she as dating someone from work. We would talk ocassionally for a few months but then she blew up on me one day and I got all contact starting in December. This lasted until mid Jan when she started calling and checkin my voicemails. Askin me to meet for lunch and tect me how she missed me. I let this go on for a month till the end of Feb. when I decide to ask her to get a drink and then she says it is too soon. I say then what have you been doing to me the past month and a half and she doesnt answer. All she said is we should go back to no contact so I said ok and left it like that. Every week since I have recieved a random email from her about her family or something that we did when we were together. Just random emails that have no real meaning and are very weird because she said no contact again. I could see if the emails were important but they are not at all. What is going on?? What is she doing?? What should I do??