I really appreciate those of you that read this. Grkscorp, I've now tried Several times to talk to her, but she outright refuses to talk about things. Even when her car broke down at rehearsal (and she lives in the same building as me) she refused to get a ride w/ me. She's avoiding me hardcore.

And bluesummer, that's generally what I'm hearing from a lot of guys, but the fact that I may have hurt her (I now remember saying some things when she came over to "nap" that I guess could be seen as offensive, though I dind't mean them to be. I was just exhausted and not thinking.) really bothers me. Plus, she was sort of the focal point in a group of friends I hung out w/ (2 gay guys, and a huge, sweet (but unattractive at around 350 lbs) guy who likes her, me, and her) and now the group hangs out without me which is pretty hurtful. So I guess that's another reason I care.

I'm thinking of rephrasing, and abridging this story and then starting a new thread cuz there is some slightly new information, and I feel like a lot of people were turned off by the length of my original post. :-\ Not sure though.