Are you saying that you were working AND looking after finances while your wife does nothing?

Man, I hope your house is spotless, and both food & sex are gourmet b/c if it ain't you are being taken for a ride.

Sounds like you made a mistake (how big, did you blow her family inheritance on gambling--perspective) and she's got you running big-time on the Guilt Card.

A partnership is *a partnership*. You help each other. You give & get.

The online boyfriend? I can't even begin to say all the things wrong w/that in your situation.

What are you getting out of this again?