i agree with pythongrace, take it as a competition and beat the others its what i do if there is more than one guy going for the same girl, at the same time Cain has a point....so becareful what you choose to do. My personal opinion play him and see what you can get out of him don't go straight thinking you will win or get something out of it...i mean like have you met the other girls? if you know them or soemthing that gives you a much better chance of winning...