How do you move on from the only love you've known? I forgive that we had to break up because we had different goals in life but I still love him and surely he must think of me once in awhile. I have a new and loving relationship and enjoy it but every now and again my mind thinks about my only other love. I want to move on but I feel I have no closure.

Maybe it is because I spent my whole adult life in that relationship up until breakup and it can be difficult to talk with others because I find myself saying "me and a friend did this and that...." (because I don't want to say ex all the time and especially not to my current love) but after being in relationship so long there is no "I" in my past...if that makes sense.

We have no real contact and this is almost two years. I feel crazy for having these thoughts and want to move on. Any advice is appreciated.

I am moving on but my mind just thinks of him occasionally. I don't want many years to pass and he say that he regrets that we broke up.