Originally Posted by
Kainy 
As we spend time together, I am realizing that there could definitely be something legitimate happening between us. We have great chemistry; I hear from him often; best sex Ive ever had; very affectionate; and he's even gone out of his way to do things for me(nothing big, but has shown some effort). BUT he never actually calls, only texts and has never asked me out on an actual real date (and I'm a pretty date-able chic).
So what's the deal?? Can a booty call turn into something more legitimate? It absolutely seems as though we have a connection, but then again, maybe I just hear from him because he knows he can get some.
Advice?
I was actually in a FWB relationship almost exactly like this for six months. It was really confusing, because we could talk for hours and he'd do really nice things for me and stuff.....he'd even hug me and kiss the back of my neck while we slept. I thought maybe he was interested in me, although he'd said right from the start he wasn't looking for a relationship.
I think (simply from experience) that there's another level of FWB no-strings-attached relationship. I believe that some ppl like to have that casual sex buddy that is almost like a relationship....without the commitment, and on their own schedule. They get fulfilled when they need it, sexually and emotionally. This can work for some ppl, but not if one party starts to develop feelings. '
I would clear the air with him. Just ask him if he's looking for a relationship....if he says no, then you know where you stand.