Originally Posted by blikes22  yeah it does suck to be messed with like this, but I dont understand what her deal is? Why if she is so happy with me out of her life does she have to keep initiating contact?
I dont get it...Why would she want me to be there, if she is so happy since we broke up? I think she wants you as plan B. Someone to come back to if nothing else works out for her. Dating world can be cruel like that.
I was reading up about negotiation tactics the other day. People ussually have three values, best possible value that they will go for in the beginning, best alternative value, one they go for if the above is too much out their league and best low value for which they will settle if they can't achieve the higher ones but below which they will not go. I've noticed dating world can be like this sometimes as well, only they subsititute values for real people. I hope this is not what's happening in your case bikes.
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My Demon revokes any prayer
He's grown contempt for love and hope
He betrays trust, twists truth and fair
Indifference is his way to cope
Engulfing sound of sensations
He quells with voices of despair
And muse of short lived inspirations
Flees at the sight of his cold stare
~Moy Demon - Mihayeel Lermontov~
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