I used to think men & women could just be friends but not anymore. If you like each other enough to be good friends an attraction usually develops (or is there & not discussed).

That said, I'm not sure there's anything necessarily wrong with such a 'friendship', provided everyone is honest about what is actually happening. I think its the false hope/denial that causes problems.

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A woman would never make a nuclear bomb. They would never make a weapon that kills, no, no. They'd make a weapon that makes you feel bad for a while.