Originally Posted by
Gigabitch 
Wow. You're so compartmentalized. I worry that you could be headed for a life of workaholism, O2C. What happened to dating? Maybe that would open you up.
Also, I suggest getting a group together to play poker once a week.
This is a very good idea. Like you, I am socially awkward, so the formalities of card games helps things along so well. In particular, try drinking games with cards. Hopefully your guy friends can bring along some girls to play sometimes, but don't count on it