Originally Posted by
Stirfry 
He used to be more masculine... but now he seems
more feminine. He doesn't have many male friends... he never tries to impress anyone.
I know what I want in a guy, and it's hard to realize that some of those things
will never manifest in him. There was only one other I've ever met that had
everything in that sense, but he's long gone now.
The only way I think he'll come around is if he finds a new group of friends and
gets some confidence... and finds a way to thrive, physically and mentally.
Seems like that will never happen...
Take him out clubbing some time, take charge If you have too, I know that
should be a guy thing, but he's not man enough to do it, someone has to
take control, another guy thing
which he doesn't have.
If he doesn't want to do anything fun, what do you in your spare time?
I have lots of ideas that I could, If I found the right girl that enjoyed
my passions and trying new things.
Probably leaving him now might a solution to your problem, if you continue
to feel this way, either you try to fix him or help him out to become masculine,
motivate him, If that's possible to be less nerdy and fun.
P.S. Seems quite immature for his age it seems, focus on school for now,
and If after you find the right guy afterwards, then go for that.
It's a guys thing to make his girl want to be around him, he can be
fantastic in how he feels about you, but he has to be willing to make it
exciting and enjoy your time together.
What's the use of sticking around in a hopeless relationship ?