Carl, What are your motives? Also what have you lied about? I'm wondering what your motives are, because only giving this girl 2 days is not giving either one of you enough time. Giving someone time is like giving the person a break for a few months. If you know your faults then you need to work on being honest with a woman. This ex-girlfriend never promised anything to you and you need to slow down before you get your hopes up. Keep praying and start being honest with the people that you have around you right now. Give the ex-girlfriend a break and don't call her all of the time. Instead take this time of singleness to focus on your personal relationship with God. Don't be consumed with the ex-girlfriend. Instead keep praying about this and give it time. Focus on your goals and allow the Lord to work with you being honest. Their's nothing wrong with helping your ex-girlfriend move,but don't expect to get back together with her if thats the only reason why you helped her. Check your motives, because it takes two. I think that your ex-girlfriend wants some time apart from you and maybe thats why shes rushing to get off of the phone with you because she does not want to give you any false hopes. Don't nag her and don't bother her, because if you keep calling her and expecting things to happen, than your not trusting the Lord and your not giving her time. What are your motives? I hope that I have helped you some. Take Care and God Bless You, Rose